Personal Reflections – 9

photo (9)As we approach the middle of August, our thoughts begin to consider the coming school year. Many of my students are taking off more time than I needed for moving and initial settling into our new home. As I begin slowly, it allows me to continue to get settled. We are doing end of the year assessments for homeschoolers and six-month for others (Brain Training, Fast ForWord, Reading Assistant, ANW). We are available for assessments and for Family Support as we begin this new school year.
As I write this, it has been close to four weeks since we left Lakewood and exactly three weeks since we arrived in Bartlesville. During the last four weeks we traveled over 2,000 miles pulling our van behind a 26’ U-Haul truck. We took possession of a 850 square foot 2 bedroom, 1 bath apartment in Bartlesville. Having had the equivalent of a 1000 square foot 3 bedroom home we have been downsizing. When we left, we had no idea if we had disposed of enough items. We are still disposing of items. Though everything is not out of boxes yet, we are gaining ground. One way to measure that is that there is more floor space that needs to be swept or vacuumed.

Another way to measure our progress is that in three weeks we have:
• obtained Oklahoma Driver’s Licenses,
• changed our car registration to Oklahoma,
• shopped at all of the grocery stores and narrowed it down to two main ones that we will use,
• obtained library cards,
• set up both of our work spaces (though not totally organized),
• found a spot in the middle of our living room for our easy chairs (after years of using our living room as a classroom with tables and chairs),
• attended all of the main meetings of Grace Baptist Church and each of us have gone to a Bible Study (Ladies / Men).
A year ago we visited Bartlesville and Grace Baptist Church seeking God’s guidance. As we left we said to ourselves that our plan was to move to Bartlesville and we left those plans in God’s hands to confirm or redirect. In a similar way we can say with Abraham’s servant, “I being in the way, the Lord led me.” Genesis 24:27
Before we began this Personal Reflections journey, we had just finished reading through and reviewing the Brain Rules by Dr. John Medina. While I may add to my Personal Reflections from time to time, I am ready to begin thinking again about a topic that was brought to my attention last November. As a volunteer at Care Net (for 12 years – teaching parenting classes in Spanish), I was sent a notification of an event put on by Parenteen ( offering free clock hours for teachers. I thought it would be about teens who are parents, but it was about parenting teens. This brought up the whole concept of teenagers. Gathering material from this organization, the speaker (Chap Clark), CareNet and other resources, I want to explore these people in our society that we call teenagers. I invite you to join me on this exploration.

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4 thoughts on “Personal Reflections – 9

  1. I am looking forward to this conversation regarding “teenagers.” So glad you are getting settled. We moved two years ago and some days I feel as if I have lived here forever. But, other days, when I see some still unpacked boxes and disorganized rooms I think I must have just moved in. Moving is such a challenge when life must continue in its midst. We love you!

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